"In a way, the more extreme your dress code the easier it is to find a partner. It's like zebras going for other zebras. They are not going to get confused and run off with a chestnut pony. Elephants can look at hippos and go, "I dunno, there's something about the nose that just ain't right." Similarly, a white-faced, black-lipped Goth isn't going to go falling in love with some city suit; and a Wallpaper-reading chick isn't going to wrap her pashmina around a Marine with tasseled loafers.
It's the inbetweenies that can have problems. If you are not part of any distinct group, your markings are not clearly displayed and all too often you end up dating outside your species and all sorts of trouble begins.
But the toughest thing of all is when you can't identify your own species. When you wonder if- like that poor little Cowfish in the tank- you are the only one like you. And whoever you're with, you just keep noticing the differences, not the similarities."
I'm just hating everything about myself right now. It's sad, really.
--- [update]
Haha, did I really say it's sad? It isn't! It's just depressing.
first things first, this is normal for a girl to experience self depreciation like that. it happens to me a lot. Some chocolates to make you happy dear? ;)
(ok, I'm one to talk..need anti-anxiety meds to stay sane, but still!).
No really, be happy. Being sad sucks, it's hormonally imbalances you and then yu get super fat OR you get MORE prone to depression. Have a banana, you'll feel happier, seriously. My doc told me.
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baby? is something wrong?
Aiyo. Don't hate yourself it sounds very sad. Are u ok? Must cheer up! I don't like you being down =(
oww babe, here's a daisy to cheer you up. i don't know why i typed daisy (because i suddenly miss the series pushing daisies).
=(( don't make me tear with such sad quotes please.
You know...what you hate abt yourself, others love. Only you might not know or realize. Feel great again soon!
You!? Self loathing?!
I feel like I should come slay dragons or something :-(
first things first, this is normal for a girl to experience self depreciation like that. it happens to me a lot. Some chocolates to make you happy dear? ;)
don't be sad, the whole world should just go naked.
Hey sweetie? What's up? talk to me. Sending you some love from across the miles. =)
Thanks guys. I'm just so fucked up, aren't I.
Whatevs.
Babe, I'm the queen of feeling uncomfortable with many people. Come share, write me anytime ;)
Hey! Be happy!
(ok, I'm one to talk..need anti-anxiety meds to stay sane, but still!).
No really, be happy. Being sad sucks, it's hormonally imbalances you and then yu get super fat OR you get MORE prone to depression. Have a banana, you'll feel happier, seriously. My doc told me.
:)
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